Since You Didn’t Ask, But Wondered…

Since You Didn’t Ask, But Wondered…

I did a post a ways back saying that you could ask me anything.  Some of you asked me some questions.  Most of you (my posts get anywhere from 100 – 600 reads on the day that they are released) did not.  Allow me to ask and answer some of those questions that...
An Open Letter to a Surgeon…Revisited

An Open Letter to a Surgeon…Revisited

This post was originally written a year ago.  It’s been ANOTHER year removed from that horrific day now three years ago!  After that surgery failed I asked one of our Oncologists, “Look, I know you won’t tell me because you don’t know.  But,...
Impotent…Figuratively.

Impotent…Figuratively.

My brother Tom, once gave me some great advice (well, he has given me great advice many times but this is ONE example).  He told me to be prepared during the birth of my first child.  He said that it one of the most helpless things you will ever go through.  He went...
Poop vs. Prayer

Poop vs. Prayer

**Disclaimer  (please read this three times before moving on) IN NO WAY SHAPE OR FORM AM I DISCOUNTING THE APPRECIATION OF, IMPORTANCE OF, OR VALUE OF YOUR PRAYERS!!!  Again, please read this three times before moving on.** Ok, the title may have caught your...
How to Love…Me (you)

How to Love…Me (you)

No no no no, not how to love me me (Jay Mitlo), but how to love me (you) whoever you are.  Now that that is clear allow me to explain.  A couple of you out there wish you were loved (actively) by your loved ones more.  By “a couple” I mean roughly 2/3rds...
Beauty Lies Underneath

Beauty Lies Underneath

I took a moment the other day and briefly allowed/dared to ask myself the question, “What if Trey never got cancer?  What would my life look like?  The answer may surprise you. As it is with most things emotionally related for me, the response was fast and...