That “Hurt My Feelings”

That “Hurt My Feelings”

Yeah, we’ve said it, we’ve had it said to us.  Sadly, for some THIS is a level of open, honest, and vulnerable communication that is the very best that they can muster.  However, it is not enough.  What is needed however is much more.  More specific...
What Hurt Really Looks Like

What Hurt Really Looks Like

In my last post I went over what happens to hurts…on the inside.  In an almost formulaic fashion I detailed the progression of painful steps the hurt takes as it bubbles to the top of our awareness and action.  Today, we will look at a couple of examples of how...
Where Does Hurt Go?

Where Does Hurt Go?

It’s that moment when it happens.  Words, actions, observations…whatever.  Your feelings are hurt.  Now, as I’ve explained earlier this is a grossly bland overused statement.  More than your feelings being hurt what you are experiencing is an...