Things Weren’t Perfect…and That’s O.k.

Things Weren’t Perfect…and That’s O.k.

I have  noticed a stumbling block that many people have when we talk about emotional/relational needs and I wanted to share it with you.  You see, most of who you are is shaped long before your teenage years and some in psychological circles say before you turn 2 or...
What Hurt Really Looks Like

What Hurt Really Looks Like

In my last post I went over what happens to hurts…on the inside.  In an almost formulaic fashion I detailed the progression of painful steps the hurt takes as it bubbles to the top of our awareness and action.  Today, we will look at a couple of examples of how...
Where Does Hurt Go?

Where Does Hurt Go?

It’s that moment when it happens.  Words, actions, observations…whatever.  Your feelings are hurt.  Now, as I’ve explained earlier this is a grossly bland overused statement.  More than your feelings being hurt what you are experiencing is an...