How’s My Love?

How’s My Love?

We pray as a family every night.  Joe and Bella pretty much say the same thing every night.  They may mix it up a bit given what has happened that day or even say, “No thank you.”  Granted, one day last week Joe began his prayer with, “OK...
How to Survive

How to Survive

I have been learning a lot lately about a strange term, “Ordinary Misery.”  You can research it and learn all of the psychotherapy origins and treatment options and strategies but allow me to dumb it down for you.  Sadness.  Pain.  Grief.  Things like...
You’re Not a Bad Person…and Neither are They.

You’re Not a Bad Person…and Neither are They.

It’s probably not in the forefront of your mind.  You don’t walk around thinking that you’re a terrible person.  It’s in those quiet moments when you let yourself (and others) down.  You can’t believe that you did it again.  Why do you do...
Now is The Time

Now is The Time

When is it time?  How long do you wait?  When is it too late?  Doesn’t it stink when you look back and think, “I really wish I should have…”?  Yes, it’s the week before/of Christmas.  Yes, the year is coming to an end.  Yes, we are all so...
A Great Gift

A Great Gift

It’s Christmas.  What are you getting your loved ones?  How much are you spending?  What is the gift you are most excited to give?  What gift are you sure is going to get the reaction you are looking for?  Have you even started shopping?  Are you already done? ...
From Tragedy to Triumph

From Tragedy to Triumph

It’s happened to you….most likely.  You ended up on the wrong side of a terrible situation.  This can take place in many ways but I’d like to focus on one in specific today.  Betrayal. It’s no secret in these here parts that my brother is no...