Sometimes it’s just good to focus on the positive. Sometimes that’s hard. Sometime’s it really pays off to look for the good…in the bad. Maybe it’s a discipline that the more you do it the better you’ll be at it. Well, sometimes is always and maybe is for sure. So, here are some things I appreciate…both good and bad.
- My house where I’ve lived for almost 18 years.
- My family.
- My church.
- My credit score (yes, the tv is on and there’s a credit commercial on).
- My tv.
- That I get to do what I love for a living.
- That I have been quite healthy since I found out that my thyroid wasn’t working.
- That I am able to control my diet.
- That I have many different friends from MANY different backgrounds.
- That my wife is my best friend.
- That my kids are funny.
- That my kids are smart.
- That my kids are gifted in many different ways.
- That we survived the death of Trey and we’re ok.
- That we were blessed in so many different ways during (and after) the Trey days.
- Television shows that take my mind off of life.
- Golf, skiing, table tennis, and other activities that I love (yes, I haven’t skied in years).
- So many great family vacations, both as a child and now as a parent.
- Our honeymoon and subsequent trip to Jamaica with Rachel, such great times.
- Being used my God to love others.
- Steak.
- Wings.
- That I’ve never been on Dr. Phil (tv still on).
- Comedians (good ones).
- Taglines (phrases from movies, tv, skits, life that one shares with someone else over time).
- Cooking.
- Providing for my family.
- Learning about emotional needs and how to meet them.
- Seeing how those I’ve cared for/loved/ministered to have gone on to amazing lives.
- Being emotionally spent and full of despair, thus learning faith and hope.
- Being reminded of how good God is.
- Being lost in worship and just being in the moment with God.
- When people are impacted by a sermon, especially when it’s not in an intended way.
- Great memories of playing sports.
- Great failures that taught me lessons.
- The darkest moments of my life which have helped me understand/love/comfort others.
- The fact that I have been surrounded by amazing people with many gifts.
- That my community, while not perfect, is tough and committed to loving each other.
- For the opportunity to coach, compete, WIN…and lose (with dignity).
- The ability that social media presents to influence and be blessed by many.
- Having experienced difficult financial times which has enabled me to learn contentment.
- Sunny days where all seems well.
- Rainy days where all seems cozy.
- Memories from childhood of family and laughter.
- Memories from childhood of being alone and doing the most creative things.
- Scratches and scrapes from hard work.
- Watching the success of others without being jealous.
- Seeing how amazingly differently gifted we all are…all of us.
- The ocean.
- The stars in all their glory when not mired by city lights.
- Brand new socks.
- Old jeans.
- The people in my life that I don’t see often but love every minute I spend with them.
- Favorite movies shared by others.
- The privilege it is when people trust me with their feelings/emotions.
- Being able to marry people after teaching them how to love each other.
- Loving someone who never sees it coming.
- Laughing until you can’t breathe.
- Crying with and for someone.
- Realizing how small we really are and yet how impactful we can be.
- Remembering someone’s name.
- That anyone reads my posts.
- Than anyone reads my posts and tells me that it has helped them.
- When I preach and feel lead to say something other than I’d planned.
- My beaten up, scratched, quite flawed old lady car.
- Crossfit and everything it (and more so the people there) have done for Rachel.
- Kennywood, Disney, Bush Gardens, Idlewild etc. that have given my family great memories.
- The men who have been my friends over and through the years.
- The women who have been my friends over and through the years.
- DVR’s.
- That I live in city with great professional sports teams and many championships.
- Teachers who left a lasting impact on my life.
- Teachers who did not, thus emphasizing the importance of influence and opportunity.
- The wisdom that lies within the often neglected older folks in our generation.
- Being a parent.
- This computer, which was given to me.
- Not needing to end things on a multiple of 5, 10, or 25.